Jesse and Frieda – The Eddleman’s

Today’s birthday girl is Frieda T.K. Sittner, who was born on November 13, 1895. That means today would be her 129th birthday. Frieda was the daughter of Charles and Annie (Mecker) Sittner. She was baptized at Peace Lutheran Church in Friedenberg, so we are not able to view an image of her baptism record. Frieda was 4 years old when she is found in her first census in 1900. Her father was a farmer in the Cinque Hommes Township.

1900 census – Cinque Hommes Township, MO

When the 1910 census was taken, Frieda, at the age of 14, was no longer living with her parents. She was a servant in the household of Ferdinand Gerringer, another farmer in the Cinque Hommes Township. Ferdinand’s wife, Julia, was Frieda’s aunt.

1910 census – Cinque Hommes Township, MO

The year, 1910, was also when Frieda was confirmed. By that time, Zion Lutheran Church in Longtown had been established. That is where we find the confirmation record for Frieda. This is one of the places where we see Frieda’s middle initials as T.K. It also gives confirmation to the fact that Frieda was baptized at Peace, Friedenberg. If we could view an image of her baptism record, perhaps we could see what the T.K. stands for.

Frieda Sittner confirmation record – Zion, Longtown, MO

When the 1915 plat maps were produced for Perry County, we find the Sittner farm located west of Longtown. There were several Gerringer farms near Biehle, but I could not find one for a Ferdinand Gerringer, but you can see the W.H. Eddleman farm on this image. That name will become part of this story shortly.

Sittner and Eddleman farms – 1915 plat map

Then, when the 1920 census was taken, we find Frieda living in yet another location. Like so many other young women in those days, she moved to St. Louis to find work. She was one of many lodgers living in a household in that city. She was called a shoeworker at a factory. Other lodgers in that household were Julia Sittner, Frieda’s older sister, along with Ida and Augusta Gerringer, her cousins who were included in the 1910 census for the Gerringer’s above.

1920 census – St. Louis, MO

That leads us up to Frieda’s wedding which also took place in 1920. Let’s take a look at the man who would become her husband. His name was Jesse Henry Eddleman, who was born on April 27, 1896. Jesse was the son of William and Nurcena (Welker) Eddleman. The Eddleman family arrived in Perry County in 1802, prior to the Louisiana Purchase. I do not know where he was baptized. Jesse is found in the 1900 census at the age of 4. He was a younger member of a rather large Eddleman family.

1900 census – Cinque Hommes Township, MO

Probably during the next decade, the Eddleman family had this photo taken. The caption will direct you to the front row to locate Jesse.

William Eddleman family

In the 1910 census, Jesse was a teenager. He was working on his father’s farm.

1910 census – Cinque Hommes Township, MO

I figure it must have been about this time that Jesse had this photograph taken.

Jesse Eddleman

Jesse completed his World War I draft registration in 1917. He was given a Biehle address and was called a farmer.

Jesse Eddleman – WWI draft registration

Jesse did get called into military service during that war and spent some time overseas. His military record is displayed below.

Jesse Eddleman – WWI military record

We find Jesse’s name on this passenger list for the ship, Berrima, which departed New York on June 4, 1918 headed for Europe.

Jesse Eddleman – US Army Transport passenger list – 1918

Jesse was one of 3 soldiers in the photo shown here. I am almost certain that Jessie is the one sitting in the middle. I do not know who the other 2 men are.

Jesse Eddleman – WWI military photo

The last census in which we find Jesse as a single man was the one taken in 1920. He was 23 years old and was said to be farming.

1920 census – Cinque Hommes Township, MO

I had to look at both of the 1920 census entries for Jesse and Frieda to see when they were submitted. I discovered that both of them were taken fairly early in January of that year. I had to look because I know that these two were married on January 10, 1920. These two were married in St. Louis. We can view a St. Louis marriage record for this couple below. Rev. Louis Sieck was the pastor of Zion Lutheran Church in that city.

Eddleman/Sittner – St. Louis marriage record

According to our German Family Tree, Jesse and Frieda had 3 children. Their first child was baptized at Zion Lutheran Church in Longtown. I do not know where the other 2 were baptized. In the 1930 census, we find all 3 of their children. Jesse was a farmer in the Central Township.

1930 census – Central Township, MO

Next, we find the Eddleman’s in the 1940 census. Their 3 children were all teenagers. Their oldest son was working at the shoe factory in Perryville.

1940 census – Central Township, MO

In 1942, Jesse had a World War II draft card completed. He was given a rural Perryville address.

Jesse Eddleman – WWII draft card

I located this photo taken of Jesse with two other people, his Uncle John and his Aunt Sarah. Jesse is standing in the middle.

Jesse Eddleman with his aunt and uncle

The last census the public can view is the one taken in 1950. Jesse and Frieda were each in their 50’s, and Jesse was still farming. The had an empty nest.

1950 census – Central Township, MO

At some point in their lives, Jesse and Frieda had this photograph taken. The flowers they are wearing usually means a couple was celebrating some sort of special anniversary. I am thinking this may have been taken in 1960 on the occasion of their 40th wedding anniversary.

Jesse and Frieda Eddleman

Frieda Eddleman died in 1977 at the age of 81; Jesse Eddleman died a year later in 1978 at the age of 82. These two are buried together in the Immanuel Lutheran Cemetery in Perryville.

Jesse and Frieda Eddleman gravestone – Immanuel, Perryville, MO

A prominent figure in the study of this area’s history is a gentleman named Bill Eddleman. He has even been a banquet speaker at our museum’s Immigration Conference in the past. I believe that Bill still serves on the State Historical Society of Missouri. Although I was unable to track down Bill’s family history, I am fairly confident that Bill is connected to the Eddleman family highlighted in this story. After all, he likely carries the same name, William, as that of Jesse’s father. Perhaps if he reads this article, he will leave a comment explaining his connection. Here is a link to a site that tells of Bill’s service at the State Historical Society of Missouri.

https://shsmo.org/about/staff/bill-eddleman

Here is a fairly recent photo of Bill.

Bill Eddleman

3 thoughts on “Jesse and Frieda – The Eddleman’s

  1. Thanks for this story, Frieda and Jesse are my 2nd Great Aunt and uncle. You also included a picture of my 2nd Great Grandmother Sarah (Eddleman) Winkler with two of her brothers.

  2. Yes, Jesse and Frieda are my great-uncle and great-aunt. Jesse was my grandfather’s youngest surviving brother. Their grandson Jim donated the land for the National Veterans’ Memorial. I do want to point out that the one photo shows Jesse with his older brother John Eddleman and older sister Sarah Eddleman Winkler. (They are not his aunt and uncle.) My grandfather and his siblings had no Eddleman uncles, and only one Eddleman aunt (Mary, who married Henry Schweer and lived in Cape County). John was 21 years older than Jesse–showing that siblings can sometimes be almost a generation apart!

    It is interesting to trace the given name “William” in my family. It comes from a distant ancestor, William Hager. His granddaughter Mary Hager married my ggg-grandfather Henry Eddleman, and they had a son William Hager Eddleman, who was father to William Henry (my great-grandfather, Jesse’s father). My grandparents named one son for William Henry—my uncle William Hadley Eddleman. Uncle Bill died in a Japanese POW camp in the Philippines in WWII, and my parents chose to name me for him. One of my grandsons now carries the name–William John.

    I can’t end without mentioning the generosity of my ggg-grandfather Henry to Lutheran churches. He donated land for both Whitehaven in Lincoln Co., North Carolina and for Luther Chapel in Perry County. Sadly, both churches no longer exist and are marked only by their cemeteries.

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